positive approaches in dealing with life demands

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positive approaches in dealing w life demands

face the changes squarely

- The problem stems from the child wanting to establish identity and independence, and the desire of parents to continuously give guidance and protection to their children. - It cannot be helped that parents set certain rules at home, assign roles and chores to do. And set curfews and even choose the company you should go with. - The parental intent is always ensuring that you grow responsible and be on the right track.

quest for independence

- Parents naturally aspire that their children excel in school. - For some children, it is a source of frustration if they do not succeed in meeting their parent's expectations. - On the other hand, there are also children who take the expectations of the parents as a challenge, pushing them to do better in school.

high expectations

1. When the parents expectations are clear with the child/student. 2. The child/student also sets certain expectations of academic goals to achieve, and 3. The child/student diligently spends time working on school tasks.

HIGH EDUCATIONAL EXPECTATIONS TEND TO RESULT IN HIGH EDUCATIONAL ATTAINMENTS.

Sometimes, choosing a college course or career can become an issue. - It happens when the parents career plan for their child is different from what child actually wants.

making career choices

Many parents believe that getting into exclusive relationship should be the least of their child's priorities at this point. Hence, conflict arises at times when they find out that their child is in relationship, fearing that it will negatively affect their child's concentration in school.

rs issues

dealing w family expectations CUB

communicate openly understand ur parents be responsible

School demands MDA

make a plan develop good study habits avoid procrastination

peer pressure ALKD

• Avoid the group that ask you do things that are against your will. • Learn to say NO. • Keep good company. Choose to be with people who know how to say no, too. Join groups whom you share common interests with and do activities you enjoy doing together. • Do not be afraid to talk to people, like parents, teachers, or others authority, when you are dealing with peer pressure.

- People are different- in their background, values, experiences, needs interests, and a lot more. - It is understandable that you do not always agree with other people. - Reasons for disagreement vary. Some disagreement maybe easy to settle, like which movie to watch, which way to go, where to eat. But there are disagreement reaches the height of conflict resulting in frustration or anger.

peer conflict

Do not just make peace with the person. - understand the nature of your disagreement and find ways or solutions so it will not happen again.

make a commitment to resolve the problem

Are you trying to get your way eventually, or you find it important to settle the issue because the person means a lot to you? How you see it will influence how to settle your conflict.

be clear w ur intention if resolving the conflict

As you discuss your disagreement, make sure it is clear what the facts and feelings are. - Be objective. - Sometimes, the feelings get in the way of resolving the conflict. - Being emotional fires up the issue.

stick w the facts

- Avoid saying or doing anything in the heat of the moment. Cool off and find time to think. - Reflect where your anger is coming from. - Relieve tension caused by anger. Go away for a while. Walk to think. - Calm yourself. Breathe. For others, counting 1-10 gives them relief, - Find someone you can talk to, or someone who will listen to you and may give you some suggestions.

deal w ur anger and control it

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Samantha Danielle Sibayan · 29問 · 2年前

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