be honest and open: - everyone lies , try to avoid it, speak longer than normal: - it’s always better when you give longer answers than yes or no . when answering always try to add the why statement, asking the right questions: - pay attention to the other side , don’t be too selfish, the stage is big enough for both of you

#making friends

choose your friends wisely, s Kim si takav si

# share experiences , make memories

As someone who wants to win friends and become more charismatic, it’s up to you to create opportunities for these kinds of experiences to happen, which means training yourself to become a little more outgoing, confident in asking, and becoming a little more creative with the ideas you can come up with to do things

# words

Putting both these points together—what you say and how you say things— greatly impacts how people look at you and acknowledge you as an individual. If you want to be more charismatic, work on what you say and how you say it. If you want more in-depth relationships, work on what you say and how you say it.

# charisma

To be charismatic means to have the charm and attractiveness about you, both physically and intellectually, that makes other people want to be around you and want to know more about you. You may draw people in with how you talk and the way you are, you may have people hanging off your every word, or you may inspire something in people that make them want to be better., Awareness of Your Values: - This means you need to understand your values and what your abilities are. What do you stand for, what do you believe in, and what potential do you have to do amazing things in your life?, Own Integrity: - Integrity is the ability to stick to your values and do the things you say you’re going to do. This is essential when it comes to trusting relationships and with others around you and believing in yourself. For example, if you say you’re going vegan and continue to eat meat, what you said is your values don’t align with your actions. Therefore, you lose integrity in other people’s eyes - Say you have the values of keeping your head clear and not smoking because it’s unhealthy, but you go to a bar, and someone offers you a cigarette, and you give in to temptation or peer pressure. This means you lack integrity because you’re not standing up for what you believe in, and this isn’t a very charismatic way to be., Think for Yourself: - Yourself You’ve probably heard the phrase “to be a sheep,” which means to follow everyone else around and just believe what you’re told. This isn’t a very charismatic way to be because you’re not thinking for yourself and making up your own mind. The most charismatic people think for themselves, regardless of what the status quo thinks, which makes them such inspiring people to be around. - What’s more, a charismatic person can change their mind fluidly and won’t be stuck in a singular way of thinking. This, in itself, is a very attractive quality to have., Have a Flame Inside You: - There is nothing more attractive than having a flame or a spark inside you that makes you go out and get what you want in the world. - The most charismatic people find this fire within themselves and stop at nothing to keep going. It’s this energy that people are attracted to. There’s nothing more attractive or charismatic than a person with ambition and drive to make the most out of life., Step Out of Your Comfort Zone, Be in Control of Your Emotions