#10. FLP

avoid neediness, take charge, don’t be too obvious, push pull, mindset, act like you’re the prize, nonverbal communication

experience, passions, aspirations, motivation

Our experiences are deeply tied to emotion. Whether childhood, travel experiences, quitting a job and pursuing a risky new career path, or anything else of the sort, our experiences are tied to emotions., That said, don’t endlessly drone on about your own experiences. Briefly relate it to an experience you’ve had in your own life (if applicable), and then flip the spotlight back on her.

Don’t pretend you love to do something if you don’t, she’ll easily be able to tell you’re faking it and it’ll just come off as super needy, unattractive, and very off-putting

People think about their dreams, but rarely get the chance to talk about them because most people don’t think to ask.

balance

creating both sexual tension and emotional connection.

Don’t just talk and flirt. Get physical or, at the very least, get her number and set up a time to “grab a drink/coffee.” Be bold, be brief, be gone. Don’t linger around indefinitely without escalating the interaction.

what’s your job, where are you from, what school do yo go

open ended questions and, ideally, delve into her emotions and motivations.

feel a lot more powerful and dominant. Meanwhile, the questions sound almost needy by comparison, as if you’re seeking permission or are unsure of yourself.