#3. NPA

fear obstacles

nice guy, bad boy, powerfully confident

Fear of rejections, Low confidence, Inverted thinking, Assuming too much, Distraction mode, Supplicating behavior, Getting attached to an outcome

needs her validation and requires her to like him or at the very least not to reject him

They act in a don’t give a fuck mode, cocky confident way

acting in a positive open body language, confident way , show signs of desire but not neediness

routine, goal out of comfort zone

things that are rare, have bigger value if they are in less quantity, limited, hard to access/achive etc., It means that the demand for a good or service is greater than the availability of the good or service, Scarcity is basically how people handle satisfying themselves regarding unlimited wants and needs with resources that are limited, forbidden fruit

Scarce items are heightened in value when they are newly scarce. We value those things that have become recently restricted more than those that were restricted all along., We are most attracted to scarce resources when we compete against other people to try and get them. It’s difficult to steel ourselves cognitively against the scarcity pressures because they have an emotional effect that makes thinking difficult.

you don’t live the present

term used to describe a condition where a man becomes infatuated and obsessed with one single female.

Always interact with 3/4 woman’s at any time, Do not change your plans for a woman, Do not talk for hours on the phone with a girl. Keep conversations fun, flirty and short. Always make sure you are the one that ends the conversation., Always have somewhere to go and something to do., Do not let a woman dictate whom you are allowed to be friends with., Don’t be available to her whenever she wants you. Don’t become the girl’s mood hoover., Don’t chase the rejection… the girl gets one (maybe two at the most) chances to get you. If she doesn’t take the bait, the worst thing you can do is keep chasing

cold, warmth

Direct approaches involve stopping a woman in the street and going in with high energy, high confidence to let her know that you like the way she looks and you want to find out if her personality matches, unless it hurts you are not developing, your comfort zone is a beautiful place but NOTHING grows there!

It's a very simple concept: you are trying to find a reason to start off a conversation, Generally, openers are divided into two assorted kinds: indirect approaches and direct or cold approaches.

The indirect opener is a technique of starting the conversation without directly revealing that you're interested in a woman sexually or romantically. You are basically coming up with a tenable reason to speak with a woman besides the fact that you find them attractive. These have the tendency to be somewhat easier for the socially inexperienced or shy guys; they are low risk investments for both parties, almost to the point of being another way of sacrificing the goat, The potential issue with indirect openers is that ... well, they're indirect. You can quite often spend a lot of time speaking with a girl who is otherwise not available but doesn't mention it because she believed you were just being friendly rather than actually trying to flirt with her., The other complication is that it's really easy to get jammed on the opener. If you're already reluctant about cold approach or like most introverts completely overthinking the process, it can feel more comfortable to stick with the conversation you already have in play rather than trying to shift gears ... and as a result, your interaction ends up going nowhere fast. You have to be willing to adapt, move and cut a conversational thread short and shift to a new topic if required., Indirect seems like the easy route to take but you still need a lot of discipline., Women who are not interested in you or who are in a relationship will normally politely tolerate an indirect approach but they won’t give you anything to bite on. They will keep their answers short and blunt. They will avoid eye contact and may even look around the room. Stay in the set for at least two minutes and if you are not getting any hooks get out. There is no point wasting your time flogging at dead horse.

Direct openers are precisely what it says on the tin: you're being upfront, clear and direct with a girl about why you're talking to them., It's all about just approaching with high energy, lots of selfconfidence and initiating an interaction with her.

# opener, # developing raport, # qualification, # closing the deal

finding common ground, similarities, establishing emotional and physical connection trough flirtatious rapport, paying attention to reflection, is it mirroring you , is she adding spice to the cooking

checking compatibility, confirming personal traits, interests

part of the game